Dd is 2yr 3mo. She is wonderful and very funny, but has extreme mood swings. Her tantrums are starting to get very hard to handle. She has a reputation at the play groups I go to for being very overly dramatic. Some of the childminders comment that they have never seen a child like her before, which is worrying!
I know in reality this is normal toddler behaviour but I have no idea how to deal with it. I am not a very 'soft' parent (sorry wasn't sure what word to use!) and I have no problem with being firm with her, but I just don't know how to implement it. I don't find parenting comes very naturally to me. I'm a SAHM by circumstance rather than choice and I find it quite difficult sometimes.
For example, she lashes out quite badly and will scratch my face or claw at my hands/arms randomly. My left hand is covered in deep scratches from her doing this recently. Yesterday she managed to grab a handful of my hair at the roots and I struggled to get her off me for a long time and it hurt quite a lot! I will firmly tell her no, we don't do XYZ as it is not nice, and she will say sorry to me but she will just keep doing it. I am unsure what else I can do in these situations? She hits and pushes other children and won't say sorry (she will only say it to me, or DP or inanimate objects (?) but never other children), and I always feel awful about it. If she's having a tantrum I just leave her to it and carry on with what I was doing.
Are there any techniques I can use or something I can implement in these situations to get her to calm down/understand what she's done is wrong? I could really do with some help as none of my friends have children so I don't really have anyone to speak to about it.
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EyUpDuck · 17/03/2016 18:10
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