Currently expecting our 1st baby (which will be first grandchild for both my family & dh's).
We both grew up with 4 sets of grandparents (due to couples breaking up and re-marrying and great-grandparents) so we are both used to grandparents having different names (rather than just the normal grandma/granddad) including nan, gran, etc etc and, if any names overlapped they would be known by their name and surname (eg nan jones).
As there aren't any set family names for grandparents, we gave all sets of grandparents (including great & great-great grandparents) the option of choosing what names they wanted to be called.
One set wants to be known as grandma/grandad first name (even though no other sets of grandparents have chosen to be known as grandma/grandad so, in my opinion, there's no need to tag anything on the end). They have said that, mentally, they don't feel old enough to be gps so want to keep their first names (they are in their 50s).
I know that some people are probably OK with this but, as it is something that has never been done in either family, I don't like the idea of my dc calling their grandparents by their first names...for me, I would never have called parents/grandparents by their first name as it was deemed disrespectful.
Does anybody else have these views?
And what would you do/say in this situation? There's still a while to go before baby is born so i thought it might be better to sort it out now rather than when we're sleep-deprived and hormonal
TIA for opinions
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What do your DC call their grandparents?
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GoTheDistance · 14/02/2016 17:34
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