DS is 10. Ages ago the mum of a boy on his class (let's call him Ted) asked me if DS wanted to come and play, I said yes and we arranged a date. When I told DS he said Ted is annoying and he didn't want to go. I made DS go, as I'd accepted the invitation, but I said he didn't have to go again if he didn't enjoy himself.
I then didn't reciprocate as I usually would, obviously I know this is rude but I didn't want to encourage another invitation.
Recently Ted's mum emailed me and asked if DS could come and play on a certain date. I said he wasn't free (which was not true). Now she's emailed again asking when DS is free. WWYD?
- Ignore the email and don't reply
- Say something like 'we're really busy at the moment, I'll get back to you' and then never do
- Tell the truth - that DS doesn't want to come and play with Ted
- Make DS go
- Another option I haven't thought of
You may think this is a silly thing to worry about, but I'm a polite person and I'm finding this really hard! I feel sorry for the mum who is just trying to help her son make friends.