Hi there
I'm new to this board. I'll try and keep the last two years as brief as I can. Here's my story...
I'm 36 years old. Got pregnant in Apr 15. Partner (42, no previous marriage or kids) of just under a year (friends before that) was ok at first.
Decided in July 15 he didn't want to be together.
Heart broken throughout whole pregnancy.
He made very little effort. He's living with his mum as she's now disabled and he helps her out.
I told him I was moving back to home town. If he didn't want to be with me, I needed somewhere to get support. Ask him if he was ok with it, he said he was and would come every weekend (gone from 10 mins away to 40 mins away)
We had an argument one day over his lack of input during pregnancy then that was it.
Had baby son, very traumatic pregnancy and birth. Had stopped contacting ex as was all one way. If he wanted to be involved he should do off own back.
Sent him letter when DS was 4 months old asking if he'd like to meet him, plus sent photo..No reply!!
Went down CSA route a couple months after and we get £67.10 per month, what a joke!!!
Distressing at his lack of response and interest, I approach his sister and ask if she'd like to be involved. She's delighted and her and her mum (DS grandma) start to see little one.
All is ok, they are embarrassed by ex behaviour and attempt to invol
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Jenna79 · 06/02/2016 17:15
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