Ds1 is 9. We stopped using naughty step years ago now as he seemed too old for it, but it did work at the time. Nowadays if does something really bad he is sent to his room.
Trouble is, he doesn't see this as an actual punishment since he has all his toys in there etc.
It's mostly low level annoying stuff, just endless not doing as he's asked. He has always struggled with transitioning from one thing to another but it's really wearing. I feel like we have let him get away with too much because attention has focussed on younger siblings who need help with getting dressed, getting shoes on, washing etc. It doesn't matter who asks him - me and dh both get ignored.
He is not ignored in other ways btw - dh and I both make a point of trying to spend individual time with all three children regularly - so he's not being neglected in favour of younger siblings and playing up to get attention.
I suppose I'm asking if there is any point in re-introducing naughty step or if that's completely ridiculous! Anyone else with a similar age child still doing it?
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How old is too old for naughty step? 9yo.
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caitlinohara · 03/02/2016 20:29
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