Hi I have 2 children aged 9 and 6 and have spent the last 2 years trying to decide on baby number 3.
I have so many things I'm worried about. Age gap being the main concern. We have a 3 bed house, so another baby would mean someone having to share! If we had a dd it's not so bad but a ds would mean a 10 year age gap!
I'm worried about days out, we love going for meals and cinema bowling swimming etc all that seems harder with a baby in tow.
Will my current 2 be jealous of a new baby getting so much attention. My time is shared equally with 2, how does it work with 3.
I was reading a article about big age gaps saying don't do it, as it's not fair on the older children who have exams etc with a 5 year old running around.
I think the age gap now would be ok but worried about when they are older. Teenagers and a young child. Everyone will want to do very different things.
I keep thinking stop worrying and just have one, lots of ppl have big age gaps but I have a nagging feeling that I'm making a mistake having a third.
Any advise, experiences from ppl who have a big age gap.
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Kayleighann · 28/01/2016 16:24
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