My DS is our second (3 year old DD) and is at home most days mid-week, frequently doesn't even leave the house. Me and OH are working and he's looked after by grandparents, and because of nursery runs etc. for his sister and logistics with naps/feeds/work etc etc he never goes to baby groups etc. Whenever we go out together at the weekend, if a stranger comes near him he bursts into tears. Even at home if someone comes to visit he's gotten upset - and that's before they even try to get close to him. Have we made him like this because he only really spends his time at home with close family during the week? His sister was not keen on strangers either in spite of going to baby groups/NCT meet ups etc. but he seems to be even worse - he really sobs!
We've been given advice to make him go to people to get him used to it even if he gets upset - but he gets SO upset that it's really not fun for the person holding him....and it feels a bit mean too!
My DD has maintained her dislike of strangers right from when she was tiny. Is this just his personality too or is it because we've not got him out and about enough? Have we broken him already? Anyone else experienced this?
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Playitagainsam · 10/12/2015 15:02
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