DS is nearly two. DP (his dad) travels a lot for work, sometimes for weeks at a time.
DS will always choose to come to me over his dad, refuses to hold hands with him, drags us apart if we go anywhere near each other, or pushes DP away.Yesterday we went to a party, and DS just wouldn't let his dad hold him. It is really upsetting DP, and he thinks DS hates him.
We have tried lots of positive enforcement, like holding both of our hands, everyone having a cuddle, that kind of thing, but if anything it is getting worse not better. He is fine with DP on his own, just not with me around.
Does anyone have any advice? The amount of travel is not going to change (I switched jobs so I wasn't doing the same amount of travel). Will it get better when he understands what 'daddy working' really means?
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Solasum · 03/12/2015 09:22
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