Hello,
I have a gorgeous 21 month old son, and am expecting another baby in a month. I have always been fairly laid back about parenting, sticking with instinct and not stressing too much. I've loved every minute to be honest.
But now I'm aware that there are a few things that have to change for the new arrival, and I'm just starting to doubt myself and need your advice.
The bedtime bottle. At 21 months he still has this. Over the past week we've tried to switch to a cup. He was fine with it for a few days, but is now taking AGES to settle, and tonight asked for a 'big milk'. Should I stick with changing it, as I worry about his reliance on a bottle at his age? Or am I pushing him before he's ready?
He also settles at night much more easily for me than for his dad. His dad wants to take over so that I'll be freer when the baby arrives, but it isn't really working, and I usually end up going in.
Which leads me to... he is never left to sleep on his own. We always stay with him until he drops off. I can't see how we change this as he's in a bed and will just get out if we leave the room.
I want to get things right for him (and us) before the baby arrives, but am worried about pushing him to grow up too fast. He's such a good boy and such a joy, but bedtimes are becoming a struggle... do I go for an easy life or power on?
Any advice/ thoughts appreciated. Thanks
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dropping the bedtime bottle (and other issues)
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cornishglos · 19/10/2015 21:06
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