We went to soft play this afternoon, dc1 is 2.9 and there was another boy there around the same age. Anyway at one point dc1 was trying to get into the ball pit, the little boy was preventing dc1 from doing so, not a huge deal. Stuff like that happens at soft play sometimes especially with toddlers. It's easily resolved and as long as the parents of the 'offending' child intervene appropriately then it's not a big deal. The dad was nearby so was able to discipline the boy.
I don't often like to comment on how other people discipline their kids in public but the dad of this child seemed to come down on the boy like a tonne of bricks, shouted at him then rolled his sleeve up and smacked him on the arm quite hard, hard enough that it could be heard around the whole place. Dc1 was only standing a couple of feet away and witnessed the whole thing. Am I being precious in feeling a bit uneasy at the fact that dc1 had to witness that? We don't use smacking as a form of punishment and it was more than just a tap, even dp let out a gasp when it happened.
Needless to say I encouraged dc1 to play else where after that, as it wasn't the first time during the session that I'd noticed
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Smacking at soft play.
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imwithspud · 20/07/2015 00:50
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