I'll try and keep this fairly short as I could ramble for hours. I have 2 beautiful boys (4 and 1) and a fantastic husband. I'm lucky that we are very happy and healthy, and I do feel truly lucky for that with all the horrid things I seem to hear every day now. HOWEVER, I have an "urge" for a third baby....I think...and that's the issue, I'm not sure. I seem to get these powerful waves (which a year ago after DS2's birth I assumed were hormonal - i stopped bf in April when he was 13m) of wanting a third baby. I see families of 5 and think it looks great and almost get a pang of jealousy and admiration for their bravery of having the third child. But then all the usual practical stuff people talk about pops into my head and I think we should decide with our heads not "my" heart. I want to be pregnant again and experience it all over again...who wouldn't but what if something went wrong? I'm 36 next month. Also, it would obviously give me less time, effort and attention with my 2 sons who I adore. There's all the other "stuff" to consider too like the size of house and car and logistics of work and school drop-offs etc but the way I see it is that's short term chaos for long term gain.
Husband is fantastic guy and really understands my conflict but thinks on balance we should stick with what we have as we are lucky, have great life etc.....but isn't ruling ti out 100% as he sees my anguish and indecision.
I'm a bit scared that this feeling will never go but he thinks it is the indecision that causes a lot of it.....
So being honest, if you have 3 children (or more), although I know you'd never change it......is it really that much of a difference?
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I know it's been done but can some wise parents of 3 children give me some honest answers??
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williwonti · 14/07/2015 08:42
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