I'm probably just venting but does anyone else just feel permently guilty and constantly second guessing their decisions??
I have a lovely little boy who is 17 weeks he came via a c-section as he was half breech so that was my first feeling of guilt!! His blood sugars dropped in hospital so we had to top up with formula therefore I combination feeded for the first 4/6 weeks then moved on to formula which stirred more guilty feelings. He then had bad silent reflux (under control now) so he cried and cried and refused to sleep on his back so we placed him on his front (guilt again). Finally the reflux settled and he turned into a great sleeper (but a light one) so we put him in his room and he sleeps through from 7pm with a dream feed at 11pm (more guilt for not keeping him in with us) Finally the last straw on the guilty camels back was that I started weaning recently due to the reflux!!
Also if I'm being honest those massive feelings of motherly love seemed to take there time kicking in so again more guilt.
Don't get me wrong no one has really said much I just am finding this overwhelming feeling of guilt hard to shift. All my friends seem to be doing things the "proper" way and I just feel that I'm being judged I guess?
Anyone else feel the same?
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Thomasjames2007 · 21/06/2015 00:09
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