Hello - I'm hoping that someone will be able to advise me here.
Basically my partner's daughter has a shared care court order in operation where my partner gets her daughter for one week and then her father one week.
The issue is related to senior school. The father's wife is adamant that the daughter goes to a poor-performing school near them (for their personal convenience). However, this is no good to us because we live too far away.
My partner used to live near the school (which happens to also be close to the primary school the daughter is attending now), but had to flee to her other house further away after her ex-partner abused her (ABH court case pending). She is now living with me, which is even further away from the school.
So as it stands, my partner drives her to the primary school on her week, but it is very draining and time-consuming considering the distance.
We have requested that she attends a good-performing senior school near us (which is probably a non-starter) or a school equidistant to both families, so the shared care can continue (which is the ideal situation for the daughter - her request). However, we are not sure where we stand with this?
Basically the father's wife won't budge or negotiate (the father takes no interest whatsoever and leaves it to his wife to sort everything).
Does anyone know where we stand and what the judge might decide (as we have tried mediation, but with no negotiation on their part, we had no choice to refuse) seeing as it will now be going to court?
Can a judge rule on an equidistant school regardless of catchment areas? I do believe my partner's house is actually in the catchment area of where we are proposing, but their house is certainly not.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks.
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Anon310704 · 11/06/2015 09:30
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