Basically I have mild health anxiety and a small, slow growing dd (Born 25th, tracked 9th, slipping towards 2nd percentile though always grows a bit). My HV are in a demographic area where they like to be "belt and braces" and monitor anyone with this situation, so they see me every 4-6 weeks and always have done. My logical brain tells me it's immediately apparent that I'm a bloody annoying NCT helicopter mum responsible parent who follows advice and does things properly. If DD were to get really teeny (as may happen as she's at the 8 month growth slow down) I would simply be referred to the GP who would check there wasn't a medical cause and perhaps prescribe some kind of bulking up milk.
The anxious me constantly worries they're thinking "what an AWFUL mother she can't even feed her child" and thinking I don't care.
It goes without saying bar the odd cold DD is in rude health and so developmentally average you'd think she read the average baby checklist in the womb.
The HV also always say that most likely she is just petite, she seems quite alright albeit small but they like to monitor in case of allergies or something.
Please give me some reassurance if you have/had a small baby or are a HV/HCP.
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Reassure me: small baby HV anxiety
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squizita · 10/06/2015 20:08
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