...how much do you feel you can manage with no other adults, in terms of trips and days out?
I have a DS aged 4.5 and DD aged 2.5. I'm finding it increasingly difficult taking them out when I'm not with DH or another adult. For example, we recently went to a little farm nearby that has an indoor playbarn. We decided to come out of the playbarn and have an ice cream. We had just sat down at a picnic table to eat them when DS announced he needed a poo (of course he hadn't needed one five minutes earlier). So we had to balance our ice creams on the table and go to the toilet. Then he decided he couldn't poo. We came back to the melting ice creams only for DD to then decide she needed to go the toilet. So we had to leave the ice creams again...it would have been easier if I'd been with a mum friend who even if the adult-child ratio had been the same could have stayed with the other children while I took one of them to the loo.
I do take them to a few other places which have been a bit easier but they always seem to want to go in different directions or look at different things. I also normally only take them out on their bikes if I have another adult with me, as DD will zoom off on her balance bike whereas DS pootles along at walking pace but wants me to stay next to him. The park can also be difficult as they want to go on different things and sometimes both need help. In theory I can take both of them swimming now by myself but I haven't attempted it, as I know they would both want me to hold on to them. DS is at morning nursery and most afternoons recently we've just been staying in the house and the garden as I otherwise I get anxious about trying to keep them both safe and near to me. Whilst I don't want to wish their lives away I keep thinking it will be much easier when they are four and six.
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Hygellig · 06/06/2015 21:14
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