I'm a rubbish parent!

[needalifeline]

I'm just going to be blunt as I am so angry. I'm sorry if I waffle is just all too much. I have a 23 year old son who lives with me and he's dirty and untidy. I rent a house and his room smells so bad that I've asked him to leave the door open every day to let air circulate. He refuses and this causes so much conflict I can't tell you. He won't get a job and I take £30 a week from jsa which he says is too much and I'm robbing him! I want him to move out I really do and have told him so as I can't cope with the way he is Theres too much conflict and he smells so bad I fear that a very substantial bond will be withheld from me because of this. He does nothing to contribute in the home whatsoever and I mean NOTHING. He's confrontational and doesn't care who hears. Sorry if this isn't the right place I just need someone to advise me

[AddictedtoGreys]

does he have any friends who can talk to him about his personal hygiene? he's more likely to listen to them unfortunately