I was thinking about this the other day, and wondered how other mums felt about it... Of course, none of us would give up our children for the world or ever truly regret becoming a mum. But it does change our lives so dramatically, what do you really miss the most???
My list:
- Going to the toilet by myself (with the door open or shut as I pleased!)
- Being able to make a phone call or have a shower without interruption!
- The spontaneous Saturday visits to the shops with dh for no reason, just to "look around", maybe grab a cuppa and some lunch...or any spur-of-the-moment outing, without having to pack drinks, snacks, nappies, dolly etc...
- Having a cute(r) belly button!
- Having a career and my own guilt-free spending money!
- Talking to my dh about things other than bills, money and the kids.
Sounds pretty pathetic (and selfish!) now that I look at it - if I wrote a list of what I would miss now if I wasn't a mum (knowing what I know now), it would definitely be longer! And I do feel better now I realise that!
Anyone else have any others to add?