Did anyone notice a sudden decline in behaviour at this age? My DD recently turned five and I feel she has been replaced overnight! For weeks now she has been rude, demanding, refusing to do as she is told, refusing to go to bed, saying awful things like she hates me etc, wishes she had another mummy. Some days are better than others, and it always gets worse after tea, tiredness I expect.
I just feel like I don't even know her anymore and it's really getting me down. We did a start a reward chart and she was great for about five days, seeing the stars on her chart build up. But she doesn't seem interested in that anymore, even though she was promised a reward at the end.
Generally I try to ignore her when she's silly and praise good behaviour, but sometimes when she's being that rude and defiant/out of control it's hard to completely ignore it and if I do tell her off she will just laugh in my face. No matter what I do she quite clearly doesn't care and I hate to say it but I feel she's the one in control. Then she seems to suddenly realises her behaviour and will be crying and saying how much she loves me and is sorry afterwards.
I need some new tactics because this cannot go on happening on a daily basis. A 5 year old has control over me. Everything used to be great and I've no idea what's happened.
ANY advice would be very much appreciated.
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drivingmenutty · 16/02/2015 20:53
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