Hello,
My toddler is just 2 and sleeps at night from 6.30pm-6.30am (approx.)
She used to have a nap in the day but only ever did this in her pram. She's never napped in her cot, but goes to bed happily there in the evening. Our usual routine was that after lunch she had a big cup of milk and someone took her for a stroll in the pram, and she dropped off.
Now she's putting up a terrible fight. She begins tantrumming when she knows it's lunch time though she does eat and enjoy lunch. Then she says 'I'm tired' but refuses to get in the pram. If she's forced into the pram she cries very loudly for the whole walk and keeps herself awake. If we put her in her cot she plays but doesn't go to sleep, and also tantrums if the light is turned off. She seems to have developed a hypersensitivity to the possibility of a lunch time nap and be very, very angry for the whole of that time.
What happens is this ruins the day pretty much from 12.30 onwards. She has severe meltdowns at lunch time and then doesn't really want to do anything in the afternoon or is in battle mode. Most days I can't wait until bedtime and am knackered. I'm also 7 months pregnant.
What would you do? Let her cut her nap altogether, or try something new? You might think she was overtired and would go to sleep earlier, but no. We have builders next door and so home is not a very relaxed environment, and my toddler just wants to spend all afternoon at home tantrumming and sort of purposefully wasting time. When I offer her activities she says no, and then tantrums that we haven't done them. I feel completely depressed.
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At end of tether with toddler - any advice welcome!
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redredholly · 29/01/2015 14:24
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