Please help, my ds is 12 weeks old and a real velcro baby but fairly easy. My older dd was a really tough baby and is a complicated and really highly strung 3 year old. She has been having huge tantrums which have worsened since the baby but she also moans and complaints all the time. I know a lot of this is normal toddler behaviour and that she is adjusting to the baby, but i also find i get really irritated by her and I'm worried that i just find it harder to lover her since the baby came. I feel like a terrible mother for feeling this and i know that i should expect her to struggle to adapt. I spend my whole day struggling with feelings of guilt. I try to have special time with her to build our relationship and I've tried lots of positive reinforcements to help us both feel better but I've just seem to have lost the special connection we always had before. I virtually always have the baby stuck to me which must be awful for her and I'm sure she feels very betrayed. She will frequently reject me and only want my oh
please help, I'd love to hear how other people managed their relationship with older children when they have a baby and how i can help get back that lovely bond we had
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givemeevenmorecoffee · 03/01/2015 03:17
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