Ok, to start this off, I am in the middle of my period (and this tends to make me much less favourable to being touched) and have a massively sore throat (and want to curl up and die until it feels better).
DS is 5 and VERY tactile and affectionate. I am very affectionate too: love hugs and cuddles. Stroking his hair. Holding his hand. We are close and affectionate.
However, DS is going very an "over tactile" phase (hands up my top, down my top, up my sleeves... Very often in public, think that my flesh is his "security blanket" - a stranger talks to him and up my top goes, hands everywhere, me exposed...).
DS is also going through a very rough stage: most kisses are "nose breakers", touching my arms often ends in painful kneading/pinching, I am always being leapt on, squashed, elbows in my tummy, a hug around my neck (and sore throat) is more like strangulation). None of it is in any way nasty, but he does have a mischievous streak. I have been saying "gentle" for months, but it is having no affect and DS is just getting worse. It is mainly me he does it to, occasionally other relations. He does try to hug/tickle strangers too, but haven't seen him be rough with friends or anyone else.
I am getting seriously hacked off (especially with PMS and sore throat). I am getting to the stage of wanting to just yell (ok "croak" ) "leave me alone!". I know it it awful and wrong, but I am beginning to hate being touched :(
Please help me deal with this. I want DS to be able to touch and be affectionate without going overboard.
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Getting a bit fed-up with "over tactile" DS (5)
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QTPie · 29/12/2014 15:15
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