I dent want to go into detail but when I was a child I was abused from age of 8-12 I didn't tell anyone as the family was falling apart and couldn't take anymore. But I plucked up the courage to tell mum 2 years ago not the ideal Tesco car park. She sort of new but not the details and was horrified when I told her exactly what went on. She begged me not.to go to the police as the person involved had a mental breakdown and is permanently on anti depressants after it all stopped. And apparently they suffered enough. I have never had a sorry and I'm not eve sure they known I've said anything. I see them a lot and feel nervy around the person. My dd who is 5 months old screams and wriggles away from him every time he holds here they've not ben left alone so I know nothings gone on. But I'm wondering if she can sense my uneasiness around him. I dent want to take it further till parents are dead as my mum is fragile and cannot put her through it my dh. Knows what went on but not who. I'd only say when my parents are dead my dad has, no idea he'd fly off the handle of he jnew.
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frankiebuns · 15/12/2014 14:28
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