I was a proper swot at school so I'm struggling with this.
DS1 (yr9) is bright enough - was apparently G&T at infant school. (He wasn't but he was top of the class, so he's not daft IYSWIM) and he enjoys school but his effort levels are nowhere near where I think they should be. e.g. most homework is done, but it's done with the sole aim of getting it done as quickly as possible rather than doing a decent job.
We fall out about it a lot but I'm wondering if I should back off and leave him to it. BUT ATM he's heading for B/C at GCSE and we he can't afford for that to fall further.
OTOH he's not a bad lad, does lots of voluntary stuff and is a pleasure to be around (when we're not discussing school work) and I don't think my nagging is helping anyway.
Is there a more constructive way to get him to work harder?
He's never in trouble at school except for a very occasional detention where homework has been "forgotten".
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Is there anything you can do about a young teen not working hard enough at school?
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december12 · 07/12/2014 09:40
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