Any other mums ut there who er on the side of "serious" (rather than "silly")?
I was chatting to a friend, a few days ago, and she was talking about how her mum interacts with her kids (Reception age and toddler) and not in a positive way. She said that her mum didn't make things "fun" and talked to the kids like you would talk to adults.
This struck a chord with me. I am a "no-nonsense", rather serious mum who doesn't tend to do "silly" or mess around. I also tend to mainly talk to DS like an adult (well obviously not exactly as you would talk to an adult, but...).
I highly respect my friend and think that she is a fab mum, so her comments made me doubt myself somewhat.
DS and I do have a lot of fun (doing lots of fun things, running around, climbing, swimming, going fun places, going to the park, racing, tickling, cuddling, rolling around, lots of talking, reading together etc) and we are very affectionate (lots of hugs, cuddles, kisses, snuggling up watching films, lots of "I love you" etc), but it is "silliness" that I struggle with. Neither of my parents were very silly, DH's weren't either.
Are there other people out there like me? Or am I a lone "stick in the mud" :(
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Any other "serious" mums out there?
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QTPie · 25/11/2014 21:35
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