My dd used to be totally attached to me (and only me) when she was little. Then she went through a time when she was obsessed with her grandma - to the point that if she fell and hurt herself, she'd go running to her first. I found this really difficult to deal with, selfish I know, but we see a lot of her grandma (is her childminder midweek) so it was quite full on. The obsession died down a bit but grandma is still no. 1 choice. My poor DH has always been bottom of the pile, bless him. Then in the last few months, suddenly I have been dropped to bottom of the pile, and DD always wants DH instead of me (unless grandma is around of course!). I do find it upsetting and worry that we don't have the same bond anymore. I try to spend more time with her bit it doesn't seem to help. Has anyone else had this with their DCs? Any advice or reassurance that this isn't just how it will be?!
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Getting the cold shoulder from my 2.5 year old. Anyone else?
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notmuchofaclue · 16/11/2014 10:58
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