I just don't know what to do anymore, ds is 8 and is dc3 out of 5. Over the last two years his behaviour at home has deteriorated to the point where he is violent to the other dc, trashes the house in temper and now swears at me. Dc1 is autistic so he has definitely seen behaviour that is far from ideal but now we're at the point that his behaviour is worse then ds1. If you saw ds at home with me you would think he had ADHD or something similar however this behaviour only happens when he's with me and dh. He's an absolute angel when he is with everybody else. At school he is regarded as one of the most well behaved, he's never been in trouble at school although has struggled to make friends he appears quite socially immature. When it's just me and him he's brilliant, kind, funny an absolute joy to be around. Tonight for example, from the moment he has come home from school he has argued and fought with his sister and then I made the mistake of putting sweetcorn on his pizza and he completely lost the plot. He threw the dining chairs on the floor, I took him to his room and he told me to fuck off and then trashed his bedroom. He was completely out of control banging doors and throwing things. He's now calmed down and is acting like nothing has happened. I on the other hand am at breaking point, I physically had to walk away from him and any be near him at the moment a I'm so angry with him and if I'm honest his behaviour is ruining our family life. Obviously with ds being autistic, this has crossed my mind but he certainly doesn't for the profile like his brother did. My dm is convinced most of it is attention seeking but I just don't know what to do and who to talk too about it.
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