Help.
I have ds1 who is 3, and ds2 5 weeks. Tonight I had to do bedtime by myself for the first time (and going forward,this will be the case at least 2/3 times a week)
So, I'm now sat here in tears, ds1 has pretty much cried himself to sleep, and ds2 sounds hoarse from crying, not sure how I've managed to create so many tears in the space of an hour but main,y due to ds2 wailing the whole way through I've ended up losing it and really shouting at ds1...get a move on, hurry up, get out of the bath NOW, etc eg but really yelling. We didn't sing a song like we normally do, we didn't get to cuddle like we normally do. I literally hate myself right now. Im struggling with 2 anyway and finding the days hard and I seem to be shouting more at ds1 then as well, so bedtime has been a chance to reconnect etc
How can I make this work? It's fine if ds2 is calm or asleep, but if he's waiking, which frankly he usually is, it's just going to be disaster after disaster.
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Desperately looking for bedtime advice :-(
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Tory79 · 03/11/2014 20:36
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