My DS (aged 14 months) had a bad fall into the side of our (wooden) bed frame 4 weeks ago. It was completely my fault as I let him try to get off the bed himself. He'd managed it OK a number of times before but this time he fell and there was an almighty thump and sobbing. When I picked him up his cheek was all red with a black bit already forming in the middle of it. It was 11pm and I didn't know what to do. DH shouted at me that I was over-reacting and it was only a bruise. DS stopped crying after a few minutes and he seemed himself and seemed OK the next day. Two weeks later I took him to the Drs as there was still bruising and the GP checked him out and said they would still expect bruising after two weeks. I'm now really stressed out as its now 4 weeks since he fell and I can still see discolouration under his skin and there's still a red mark on his cheek where he hit the bed. I'm worried that DS has caused permanent damage to his face and IT WAS ALL MY FAULT. It was a really stupid decision to let him try to get down from the bed when he was tired, upset and still wearing a baby sleeping bag (although he stands in these OK). I don't know what happened other than he fell and I wasn't able to stop it happening. I feel so guilty and DH thinks I am losing it as I am crying about it all the time, and inspecting my son's face on a twice daily basis for any signs of improvement. Has anyone any experience of bad bruising and how long it can sometimes take to heal? I am going back to the GPs tomorrow. I can't forgive myself and I feel like the worse mum ever and not deserving of having a child. Wish I could look at DS and not see the imperfection I've caused, but see a wonderful 15 month old instead.
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