So I have a 2 year old dd. She was the apple of my eye up until about a week ago. Now I'm seriously considering giving her away
It's like she woke up one day and decided she wasn't going to be sweet and happy ad well behaved anymore. Now she hits, throws, whinges screams yells cries literally all day long.
Example: she has just begged for a nap, she tried to go to sleep on the floor cos I was pushing her to 10am (she will sleep better and longer). So I take her off to her bed. No sooner are we in her room she starts hitting me and running around giggling. Refuses to go in her cot. Refuses to lie down. Cries for her blanket - then kicks it straight off and cries again. Now she's in there yelling and shouting and I'm in another room just waiting it out. I'm quite good at the listening to her yell and cry now as long as it doesn't sound like pain.
She throws everything on the floor. Her water bottle, her toys, her breakfast/lunch/dinner and thinks it's hilarious. She hits me constantly and laughs. Time outs don't seem to so anything CIA she just sits there happily and when it's finished she says sorry and then hits me again. I spent 4 hours - that's right - 4!! Putting her in and out of time out yesterday. In the end I put her in her cot and locked myself in the bathroom and cried cos I was inches away from smacking her and I don't believe in that.
I need help. I'm an emotional person and easily riled up. I am quick to frustration and annoyance and I'm trying my hardest to control this so she doesn't see it cos I think the will encourage her.
I've tried ignoring her when she throws things and is naughty so she has no reaction at all but then it just seems like a free for all and she destroys my home.
Please help me. I'm 34 weeks pregnant as well so exhausted and hot and slow. What happened to this happy, sweet gorgeous little girl I had??? Where did she go?? Is it over? Is this my child now??
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LittleMissRayofHope · 08/08/2014 10:06
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