DD's are 3 and 6 and cannot be together without arguing. It is enough to drive me up the wall.
Mainly dd1 is bossy and likes to mother dd2. This can involve telling dd2 off, telling her how to do something instead of letting dd2 work it out and generally wanting to be in charge/be the boss all the time.
DD2 hates this. Quite rightly she considers herself dd1's equal and doesn't see what right dd1 has to tell her what to do or how to behave.
This results in arguments or dd2 lashing out at dd1 in frustration. DD1 then comes crying to saying 'dd2 has just hit me/pinched me' etc etc. I then have to tell dd2 off because hitting is unacceptable but I do really sympathise with dd2. I would feel like hitting out as well if someone kept criticising me or trying to stop me playing.
DD1 is a complete fun sucker. She sucks all the fun out of life for dd2. Even at the water park the other day, dd2 was running around enjoying herself, having fun. DD1 kept stopping her, telling her off, telling her where to go, what to do etc. In the end dd2 hit dd1 in the stomach (not a punch) and then ran away from dd1. I had to call dd2 over to tell her off. This completely spolied dd2's fun and dd1 was the instigator. I am so fed up of this that I lost my temper and told dd1 that she keeps ruining dd2's fun, made her stand next to me, outside the play area and then proceeded to show her how much more fun dd2 has without her.
I know this was unaccountable. DD1 just look confused. In the end I sent her back into play. She doesn't understand what she is doing wrong and I must be explaining it really badly because she just doesn't get it.
I can't cope with 6 weeks of this .. please help
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slipslipslippy · 22/07/2014 10:47
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