I seem to find weekends are often far less relaxing than my weekdays, and I'm wondering how to improve them.
I'm a SAHM. My DH is a lawyer who works very long hours. I am very much the primary care giver and (loathe to say it) housewife. We have a DS, 3.5, and a DD, 10 months. I do the vast majority of the housework, as my DH is at work till at least 9pm every night. Generally we work well together and have a fun, happy time.
HOWEVER, I just find at weekends that things get a bit chaotic and unsettled - and not in a fun way. It's hard to describe it but I find I'm constantly wondering what we should all be doing. I want my DH to be able to relax, read the paper. But then I feel like he should also be spending tons of time with the kids as he doesn't see them during the week. I oscillate between thinking that he should be playing with DS, taking him out to play football, scooter, etc but also thinking DS needs to let him have a bit of space to read his ipad and relax. Then I find myself asking my DH to get off his ipad and play. Aaaarghh!! It's hard to put exactly how it is into words! I find during the week it's just calmer somehow.
There's also this kind of sense of competition between the two of us about who needs to get some time off and relax.
Does anyone else find this? And does anyone have any tips to improve it?
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How to relax at weekends?
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lifesobeautiful · 30/03/2014 21:45
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