DS is 17mo and is my second child. I struggled bonding with my two from the start. My eldest is now 3 and is an absolute delight, I love her, she's bright and independent and a real character.
My son is the opposite of her, where she was so laid back, he is so highly strung. He's clingy and cries so much over the smallest things. I just can't bond with him. I can't remember struggling this much with DD. I think it could be the lack of communication I have with DS, obviously he isn't speaking loads given his age. I just can't bond and I don't want him to grow up thinking that I don't love him, I really want to love him.
I feel so ashamed I can't tell my family as they all love him (obviously) and can't see what my problem is. I can't even see what my problem is!!
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EverythingsDozy · 29/03/2014 21:05
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