I feel like a bit of a freak at our baby class as we don't really have a routine. DS is 13 weeks and EBFs on demand, we co sleep so he naps downstairs on my lap or in his Moses basket until we go up to bed where he usually feeds, I read him a book and we go to bed. Generally we wake up when his daddy gets ready for work in the morning but tend to vary when we get up/changed, some mornings we just have a cuddle and songs in bed. He has about three baths a week at the moment (and a top and tail wash daily) but these are as and when he needs one/ we have time to enjoy it. DS seems happy and I am really enjoying our time together and don't feel in a rush to establish any fixed routine as this just feels natural whilst I am able to enjoy as much time as possible with him whilst I am able.
I don't have issue with anyone using routines and I feel totally out of the loop when talking about bedtimes and counting hours between feeds etc when speaking to other mums. I do sometimes worry that DS will suffer for it and it is just me being lazy.
Does/did anyone else get by without a fixed routine?
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Any other mums who don't really have a routine?
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everythinghippie29 · 26/03/2014 19:00
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