I've just been offered a full time job that would mean I would only see my 2 DDs at the weekend. They are 15mo and 3 and a 1/2. I would get about an hour in the morning and hopefully get home in time for bedtime. I currently work 3 days a week.
My biggest dilemma is the feeling that someone else would be raising my kids and I would never see them. They are in childcare that I feel very happy with but DD2 took a long time to settle in and is still breastfeeding, especially through the night, and I think she needs me around still.
What should I do??? It's a massive step up for my career but I feel I'm not putting the dcs' welfare first if I take it, even if it is just for a few months.
I had an absolutely rubbish childhood, being slapped for very minor things, constantly shouted at, no emotional support and I want to give my dds emotional support and love I never had but how can i do that if I am not with them?
Would love to know how other parents dealt with returning full time as opposed to part time, and how you think it affects the children?
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Been offered a F/T job but how will that affect 15mo and toddler? Should I stay P/T?
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missrose · 18/03/2014 20:31
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