wasn't quite sure what name to give this thread?
ds's are 9 and 12 and never, never listen first time when asked to do something. probably describing most kids here but its grinding me down and I get worried if I get frustrated as I have bad anxiety and depression and a simple debate can cause rage in me!
I know I lack persistence and tone in my voice and more but I try my best.
few examples of everyday repetition:
.time to get up, still in bed 10mins later - time for bed...still up an hour later whispering to each other.
.put items away after use - milk, juice, bread, cereal. often left open to go stale!
.flush the chain as I often walk into a used toilet/bathroom.
.pick up your clothes, put away your clothes - washing left sprawled over the floor and 2 days of asking its still there?!
.shut doors after opening, turn lights off!
.lower your voices, get an ok, then 5mins later have to ask again.
.brush teeth / hair for school, get shoes on...get shoes on...GET SHOES ON WE'RE LATE!!
I can ask them to do something and its like talking to the wall, the amount of times I repeat myself, it should be drummed in by now surely? get up, get washed, brush teeth... shouldn't need reminding daily?
it would really help if they co-operated, the house would be a better less shouty place! Im just trying to get them to learn basic hygiene and life skills but they're making it rather hard and stressful.
I was going to start pocket money, but after lurking on a recent thread about pocket money - that most dont agree it should be given it return for chores, im lost for ideas?
what advice can you offer please. sorry its long.
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mouses · 18/03/2014 20:30
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