As the title says really. My Mum lives abroad and MIL doesn't seem to be keen on really seeing or looking after our DD despite the promises before birth that she would look after her all the time and would steal her away if we weren't careful(!)
She is only 4.5 months so it's not like we want to leave her much but it would be nice if DH and I could get out maybe once every month or two in the evening for a bit. We obviously take her with us everywhere in the daytime which is lovely but she goes to bed at 8pm so evening activities are pretty much out.
As MIL not interested, I am resigned to DH and I going out separately if we ever want to have an evening out so I know evenings out together aren't on the cards for a while but from what age would you start paying a babysitter and feel happy leaving your child with them? 1 year old? 2? older? We have no other family who can help as siblings all younger and no experience with children.
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Using a babysitter from what age
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Smerlin · 12/03/2014 20:41
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