My mother came to stay with us while DH recovers from a life-changing back op - it's worth pointing out he was our toddler's sole carer beforehand.
Mum has been looking after DD for three months now, while I've been working full time. The relationship between her and DH has deteriorated to the point of no return.
She has started telling me how he "treats her like a lap baby" and makes her sit on his knee in front of the TV, doesn't let her play and climb on furniture and that "she needs to fall off things learn from her mistakes" and gives her "too many yoghurts which is making her constipated".
Firstly, I do the weekly shop and there doesn't seem to be any yoghurt-ODing in our house. Secondly, I can't quite believe that DH stops her from playing - she's a strong little mite and wouldn't sit still for any longer than she'd want to! And thirdly, is stopping a child from climbing on the furniture such a bad thing?
I confronted her about this, and numerous other criticisms, and she says that DH is an "idiot with two year olds and needs to read some parenting books" and that she is "worried what will happen with DD when she goes home".
Ever since we had DD, Mum has been different towards DH, and is constantly disapproving of him. Perhaps because my own dad didn't play such an active parenting role she thinks males are incapable. I'm pretty peeved that she thinks so little of my choice of partner too!
I've seen plenty of posts about MILs, but has anyone else encountered similar problems with their own flesh and blood?
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My mother detests my husband's parenting skills
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betenoire2012 · 06/03/2014 11:33
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