am due to pick up my 14 month old DD from nursery in a couple of hours and am ashamed to say am kind of dreading it. Have got myself in a bit of a fix where I'm struggling a bit.
I should say upfront, I love her more than anything. I enjoy spending time with her, but have become unable to turn the telly off. sometimes I put on a few episodes of waybuloo for her, or similar, teletubbies etc. but a lot of the rest of the time I have the telly for me, and I seem unable to turn it off really. I feel panicky without it on. there's nothing I really want to watch, I just search for stuff. I can't bear to not have it on, and I know that's terrible, but I cant seem to stop. I do play with her while its on and I read to her etc, but the health visitor once did say they need the silence to hear your voice, to learn to talk, and she's not got any words yet. think it could be my fault.
She's going to nursery once a week, just mornings to get her used to it before I look for some part time work, today I extended the hours because I just needed the time. Last night I went to bed to read at six o clock - asked my DH to do bedtime, again, just kind of needed the time.
I'm not doing any housework and am so far behind on life admin.
I do have a bit of history of anxiety / depression but thought had been okay since having her, am also 13 weeks pregnant and have had a rough time with it - don't know if that's contributing. But if I'm honest, the problem with the telly has always been there.
I longed to be a SAHM, I hated my career. I'm sad that this isnt what I thought and I'm not the mum I thought I would be. I'm also terrified that maybe I'm not cut out for anything, my career was too much, this is too much, not sure what there is for me really.
Can anyone offer any words of wisdom? I do love her more than anything and want her to have the best start in life if I haven't already cocked it up too much, and want to make a good home for our second baby too, and worry myself about how much worse I might be with two.
By the way she seems to be a happy and contented little girl, except when I drop her off at nursery when she's not happy at all! Bless her.
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pennyapples · 05/03/2014 13:53
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