I have 6 year old dt's - girls. Yesterday in Sainsburies one of them told me that the other one had taken some chewing gum. She denied it and I looked through her coat pockets and couldn't find anything so presumed that she had just taken it and then put it down somewhere else during the shop. She looked bloody guilty but I had no proof.
This morning I was changing their sheets and she was adamant she didn't want me to remove her pillowcase. I left it a while then returned to their room later when they were both in there getting dressed and removed the pillowcase. Underneath was an unopened packet of mints. Clearly taken from Sainsburies yesterday. She was gutted she had been found out - more so because she thought I might tell her teacher! Not that she is afraid of the consequences from me!!
I told her I was so cross I would have to think all day when she is at school what her punishment should be.
I thought that was bad enough, but after having put the sheets through the wash, I have now found an unopened Maybelline eyeshadow in the washing machine drum - clearly this had also been hidden within her bedsheets!!
They both have form for doing this kind of thing, but not for ages and I thought we had got the message that it is not OK to steal.
I can't think of a suitable punishment though. I need it to be strong enough to make sure she doesn't do this sort of thing again, but apart from not buying her sweets on Saturday, I'm at a loss. Anyone got any ideas??
PS I know it can be a bit of a joke as an adult when we talk about nicking sweets from the corner shop when we were younger (not that I ever did of course!) but I am also very upset that she lied yesterday when confronted. It's the deceit that pisses me off.
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pasanda · 03/03/2014 10:22
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