DD2 is 1 week old, DD1 is 2.5 and DH goes back to work next week. I am stressing about how I will cope. MIL can probably come for the first few days and DD1 will be in nursery 2 days a week but my family are overseas and can't come to help.
The impression I got from the health visitor is that this won't be enough. She said DD1 will become resentful of all the breastfeeding even if she's thrilled to be a big sister now and we should get out of the house every day. It is a military operation to get the four of us out of the house currently so I don't know how I am going to manage it on my own. A lot of the council baby groups are limited in places so you have to be there early which seems near impossible currently.
What do you think is realistic to accomplish at this stage and should I take up friends on offers of park visits/babysitting DD?
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how to cope with a toddler and newborn - help!
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spritesoright · 22/02/2014 06:20
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