My beautiful baby boy was 3 weeks old yesterday. I love him more than anything, I would die for him. But, I just can't be bothered with him. I love to give him a cuddle for a few minutes a day but that's all I want. It may be because I am very tired, and I am sure this is a big part of it, but I just want to be on my laptop, watch tv, meet up with friends for coffee etc. I have had a lot of help since having the baby and so there's always someone who wants to cuddle him but on the rare occasion that I have to have him I just try to get him to sleep so I can put him down again and if he won't sleep I hold him near my side so my other hand is free to go on my laptop or eat etc.
Since he's been born I've been really upset at my attitude towards my baby. I am not depressed, just lazy! And I'm not a lazy person. I worked up until 40 weeks pregnant, have worked hard all my life to achieve good qualifications and live an active life (before baby I was never bothered with tv or the laptop). I just have no time for my baby and it makes me feel very guilty. I always considered myself very maternal, and in many ways I am a good Mum (baby is clean, fed and comfortable). Baby is not neglected, but is it normal to feel this way? Howe can I grow to enjoy looking after my baby?
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I cannot be bothered with my newborn
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jacinta1 · 08/11/2013 12:12
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