Ds is 3 months next week. I have two questions:
- What does/ did your 3 month old wear? Am I meant to put him in tops and trousers? Sleep suits are so convenient! I don't want to put him in outfits ... But other mums I've met say at 3 months he's not a little baby anymore and should be in proper clothes.
- Do you have a bedtime routine? At the moment ds doesn't nap beyond 4 or 5, cluster feeds most evenings, and eventually settles around 10 or 11 or sometimes later. We give him a bath every other night at around 7 but it doesn't make him sleepy and he is with us in the lounge till we go to bed. I've heard that by 12 wks they should be sleeping through the night (ha!!!) and be in bed by 8. But I just don't know how that's possible.
I guess underlying both these is - if not now, when? Everyone tells me that 3 months is a milestone, and id like a routine etc but so far we've been getting along ok doing things on demand with a very rough EASY or EAESY pattern, and I don't know how to change. I'm worried that I'm treating ds like a younger child and not responding to his changing needs as he grows. Also, I have to go back to work at 6 months so long term doing things on demand won't work, and we need some structure.
Any advice gratefully received!