Random and slightly merry conversation with friends at the weekend.
I know most people go into becoming a parent with rose-tinted glasses (I will bake, all the time! And write that novel while the baby has 3 hour naps! And never, ever even show them a telly before they are 4! ) and quickly realise that generally real life is different. None of us were actually that surprised by this. But most of us agreed that the love we felt for our DC was different from how we thought it would feel.
I imagined I would have an overwhelming rush of love for my baby and would spend hours staring at them in utter adoration. I imagined something quite romantic, really. This isn't remotely how I actually feel about DD. I can't stare at her forever, I never have been able to. I don't look at her and regularly feel awash with amazement about how incredible she is, though of course she is awesome and super baby and all that. What I do feel is a very simple protective instinct, if that makes any sense. She might drive me loopy (she's a toddler, after all) but I know that I would do anything to protect her from something bad, anything at all. I know that she is the most important person in my world.
Do you think you feel the same way that you imagined you would?
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Do you love your DC in the way you expect?
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Thurlow · 23/09/2013 16:56
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