I'm a big weepy mess at the moment. I have dd who is 4.1 and ds who is 14 months. And I'm 7 weeks pregant. It was planned. For what seemed like eminently sensible reasons at the time. Not too big a gap between dc1 and 3, nice for them to be closer and play together etc etc. DH is a teacher and the baby is due late April so he'll get 2 weeks paternity, 6 weeks at work followed by 6 weeks off.
But now it's happened I'm hugely panicking that we've made the wrong decision. What if its awful? I'm worrying I won't be able to meet all their needs or give them enough attention. I love love loved the baby stage with them both, I don't want it to be a big blur which I sob my way through. I don't want to lose ds's baby time.
I've been reading around and all I seem to find are negative things about damaging their mental health :(
I don't know if its just hormones or what but I'm a wreck. Positive reassuring advice would be hugely welcome. Please :)
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Reassurance needed about 22 month age gap
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Bloob · 08/09/2013 22:48
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