I went for a walk with her yesterday. It took us an hour to get there, we had lunch, we walked home. It would have been nice, if we had talked about anything remotely to do with her. That was the point of the trip. To give her some time on her own 1:1
She talked about episodes of Malcolm in the middle or Modern Family. She talked about Carly Rae Jepson and the words to various songs, and she asked what they meant and other constant banal ramblings. Every time there was a pause, I tried to steer the conversation back to her. Her feelings about her relationship with her brother (who has autism) her feelings about secondary school, her physical development, her friendships, her relationship with her father, her upcoming trip to see him soon.............. just something to do with us, our family , or her, but nothing. It's all slebchat. No matter how hard I dug, I couldn't get her to talk about anything REAL.
I feel like she is all hot air! does anybody know what I mean?? Is she keeping me at a distance? consciously or unconsciously?
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My 11 year old daughter can't talk about anything real but she never stops talking!!
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MargeSimpsonz · 31/07/2013 09:46
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