Hi
My DS is 10 weeks old and i am just at a loss how to get him into any kind of a routine. My HV says ti leave it until atleast 12 weeks but i really feel like we'd both benefit from one and that i am just muddling through each day at the moment.
The problem is firstly that he is ebf so i dont know how a routine would work with this because i dont know how his feeds will pan out each day and how thatll fit in with bringing in a set bed time eaxh night. His feeds are every 3-4 hours in the day now and at night anywhere between 2 and 3.5 hours so i cant tell what time they will be day to day.
Also, he will not sleep downstairs in the evening even though he is clearly shattered as there is just too much noise and too much going on so despite our best efforts he just gets more and more worked up. I have therefore put him upstairs for the first time on his own at 8pm tonight but am now sitting here terrified listening to the monitor wondering if he is too young to be on his own?
I have loosley been following the EASY routine (although i have literally only read the first 2 pages of the book due to lack of time!) And its working so well with regard to him taking day time naps etc but i just dont know how timings fit in with regard to bed times etc.
Any experiences please?
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Starting a routine and leaving baby upstairs alone?
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YouMaySayImADreamer · 09/04/2013 20:42
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