My DCs are 4.7 and just 2. We are considering relocating the family on a long-term basis for DH's work. The place we are going to is about a 6 hour journey away (2 2 / 2.5 hour flights), not in Europe, where we haven't been before and don't (at present!) speak any of the language. DH and I really, really need to go for a reccy before we can make a decision. We need to look round generally, look at houses, look at schools (there are only really 2 schools to choose from so we wouldn't be trailing round lots of them).
We have left DC1 a couple of times overnight with GPs (aged 3+); he has always been fine. I have never left DC2 overnight, and actually it is fairly rare for him to be looked after by anyone other than DH or I through the day either (I am a SAHM). He is quite clingy with me.
I'm really worried about leaving them to go and look round. I've told DH that I am only comfortable leaving them for 2 nights maximum (even if this means that we need to get up at 4am to get 2 actual days in the place we are considering moving to). DH thinks I'm being ridiculous and that we could easily leave them for 4 nights. I'm really not happy about this - DC2 is still BF and often needs cuddled to sleep or in the night.
We'd be leaving them with GPs who they know well and love, but still. Other solution is to take the DCs with us 9and go for 4 / 5 days), but I think we'd find it so much harder to get the most out of our trip, be able to properly look at schools etc. 2 days without DCs would be more valuable to me than 4 days of trying to find parks / food they will eat / ways of safely transporting them around in a culturally very different place (if we actually did move here I'd but a lot of effort into getting this kind of stuff sorted!).
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thewarmestowl · 04/04/2013 21:43
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