Hi, we went to a soft play birthday party today. We had our meal in an enclosed cubicle and when we had finished eating I went to get our shoes and coat from the other side of the cubicle and when I turned around my DS was gone. I searched round the play bit assuming he'd gone off with the others boys, but he wasn't with them. I then started to panic but after about 30 seconds (which seemed like 5 minutes) I saw him standing by the exit door all by himself! I ran over to him and asked him what he was doing, and he said he was with a lady and pointed to the girl who worked there, but she hadn't seemed to notice him. Later he just said he went over there on his own to wait for me. He has NEVER walked off like this before, I was terrified!! I realise I should have been much clearer to him about waiting for me while I got our things. I feel terrible and idiotic for not having been more careful I usually watch him like a hawk.
I reminded him about how he must never walk off on his own, and that he must never go with anyone he doesn't know, and he just looked at me blankly I think he was very tired. When we got home both me and DH tried talking to him about it, asking him if he should walk off and what he should do if a stranger asks him to go with them and he just keeps saying he doesn't know!!
We have another soft play party tomorrow and I am now dreading it. Does anyone have any tips about how I can talk to him about this as I'm not doing a very good job
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cheesecakeandchips · 23/02/2013 17:50
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