The more I think of it, the more it winds me up.
Yesterday, me and my OH took my 17 day old DS to his nanny's. We were sat talking about DS and she randomly asked "so are you going to put him on solids at 6 weeks?"
My immediate reaction was " No way, I couldn't do that!" Well that went down like a lead balloon!
After explaining how it is bad for them to do it at such a young age, and her looking at me like I'm crazy, she then said "Well I put all mine (she's had 5 kids) on solids at 6 weeks and they're alright" I then said "Yeah I know, but I just couldn't do it, I don't want to and I'm not going to."
We then got on to the subject of SIDS. My mum lost my brother at 11 weeks old 10 years before having me, so it's even more of a worry for me. My OH was explaining the basic guidelines to help prevent it and saying only laying babies on their backs, and not their fronts, was one of them. Again, after another look, "Well I laid all of you on your fronts!" She then said "I think these new health visitors are so far fetched, unless they've had kids of their own, they don't know what they're chatting about."
Basically I'm just getting fed up of me and OH "not being allowed" to bring our son up the way WE want to, and the way WE feel is best. I agree that the way we bring our kids nowadays, compared to 20 odd years ago, is completely different as my mum says the same. But at least my mum accepts that how I bring up my child is down to me and OH only.
I just want to know how you other lovely mummys would react to this, without letting on that you're really pissed off and without just telling them to eff off and let us do it our way not yours!
Sorry about the rant, but like I said, the more I think of it, the more it makes me angry! Oh, and sorry for long post too
TIA xx
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babyperks · 02/02/2013 06:27
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