DS1's 10th b'day is a little way off but a conversation with a friend got me thinking about invitations, as I suspect he's going to want to invite all the boys in his class except two (there are 12 in total).
We've never done big parties (6-8 kids as they're always in our house) but he's been with the same kids more or less for 4 years now and has gradually increased his circle of close friends to all but these two boys.
One of them (A) is very athletic and a bit of a bully, in particular he's bullied one of DS1's good friends and his parents have backed A up against the teacher and the other boy's parents. DH doesn't want him in our house, and I think the boy who was bullied by him would feel uncomfortable about it too.
The other (B) tends to be a bit violent after going through a traumatic experience, and DS1's approach has always been to keep out of his way. DS1 and B have never played together outside school or been invited to each other's birthdays.
So I'm wondering how very dreadful it would be to let DS1 invite 10 of the 12 boys, bearing in mind that it will probably be at home and 10 is already a lot? He can't imagine leaving any of the others out, and he sees all of them outside school.
As I say, I'm just pondering really, so any views are welcome!
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10yo DS - birthday invites
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Weta · 30/01/2013 22:01
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